I’ve been using ceramics for some time now and have never had a noise or dust issue so I don’t understand the negativity.
As for the brake fluid Honda will want you to buy their brand from one of their dealers. Whatever you buy make sure it’s DOT 3.
Brake fluid is hydrophilic meaning that it will absorb water which is why its always best to use fluid from a sealed container. (i.e. fresh can). I just usually follow the owners manual on recommended fluid changes. Recommended flush intervals will help keep your brake system internals last longer.